Brewer lawmaker revives effort to ban child marriages in Maine

The legislation by Rep. Kevin O’Connell is part of a broader push to eliminate child marriage in the United States, and elsewhere, to prevent the exploitation of minors, especially girls.

A Brewer lawmaker is trying again to end child marriages in Maine.

State law allows 16- and 17-year-olds to wed with parental consent, similar to state laws in about half of the country. But a bill proposed by Rep. Kevin O’Connell, a Democrat, would prohibit anyone under 18 from getting married, whether parents approve or not.

The bill is part of a broader effort to eliminate child marriage in the United States, and elsewhere, to prevent the exploitation of minors, especially girls. A small but growing number of states have eliminated the right of minors to marry under any circumstances.

O’Connell proposed a similar bill last session that passed in the House but died in the Senate. At the time, some opponents said that they preferred a different version of the bill that would have allowed 17-years-olds to get married, an age consistent with being eligible to enlist in the military.

That change doesn’t sit well with O’Connell, who said he served 24 years in the military and would often hear about 18-year-old soldiers marrying their 17-year-old girlfriends before deploying.

“I saw those (marriages) and I don’t recall any of them actually working,” O’Connell said during an interview last week. “You don’t have the life experiences under your belt to make that decision.”

Almost all states require both partners to be 18 to get a marriage license without needing their parents’ permission.

About half of U.S. states, including Maine, allow 16- and 17-year-olds to marry with parental consent. Nine states, including Florida, set a minimum age of 17. The minimum age in Kansas and Hawaii is 15, while nine states, including California, Mississippi and West Virginia, have no minimum age written into state laws, according to according to Unchained At Last, a survivor-led nonprofit seeking to end forced childhood marriages in the U.S.

Seven states, including Massachusetts, Rhode Island and New York, have set the minimum age to marry at 18, the group said.

About 10,000 marriages take place in Maine each year, and fewer than 10 typically involve at least one partner who is under 18,  according to state data.

Supporters of the effort to ban child marriages argue that parental consent provisions for people under 18 can result in parental coercion, especially in cases when a girl becomes pregnant. In some states, although not in Maine, pregnancy is cited as a reason girls can get a court’s permission to marry before they turn 18.

The vast majority of child marriages in Maine and the United States involve a girl marrying an adult man. There were 46 marriages in Maine in the past six years that involved someone under the age of 18. Nearly all of those marriages – 43 – involved a girl. Five of the marriages involved a boy, including two marriages to a girl.

Unchained At Last says 70% to 80% of child marriages end in divorce, leaving young women with few options. Minors are immediately emancipated upon marriage and can become homeless if they leave their spouse, they said. Their futures are dimmer, because they often don’t complete their educations.

“(The Maine bill) simply eliminates the dangerous loophole and keeps the marriage age at 18,” Michele Hanash, of Unchained At Last, said in support of the bill last session. “It harms no one, costs nothing and ends a human rights abuse.”

Dawn Tyree, of Manning, Oregon, testified before the Maine Legislature last year about her experience as a child bride.

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